Don't think too much!
Friday, March 16, 2007
When you friend said "i want to kill you for whatever you've done..."
Do they really mean that? ( i mean people with no mental problem)
Of course not, this is solely a way for them to express their anger, he or she will forget everything about it the next moment... This matter really happened to me... and the person (i don't want to mentioned his name here making him so famous in the internet world) really took it very seriously... OMG, he thought that i really want to "kill" him, he had "life-threatening" feeling... I had talked to him, and of course we argued a lot. He still doesn't know what he had done.., and he still think that i am having problem with him long ago because i didn't had long conversation with him... What i can say is: do not think too much..!!!
People didn't talk much doesn't mean that they don't like you. Everyone have their own feeling and mood at anytime, don't think too much... The actual world is not the world you thought during kindergarten time, relationship is not that "simple" and "naive", please grow up and be matured, you are 28 now and not 15. You thought you can get along well with everybody, and everybody loves you.., "are you sure?"
You didn't get to realised that you like to "argue" with people for something which he or she doesn't know the answer... If they don't know, they will say "don't know" and stop talking on the same topic, and this doesn't mean that they don't want to talk to you or having problem with you, they just don't want to argue about that same issue again and agian with no conclusion worrying that would affect your friendship. Don't think too much!
For those people didn't get to realised what they have done could affect other people and yet thier own problem couldn't be solved either, we cannot do anything. Our thinking and mind just doesn't sync... And again, it doesn't mean that i have problem with you.., don't think too much!
For the "killing" thingy, actually i send an sms to his friend saying i feel that i want to kill his good friend for whatever he had done... You should clarify with me first BEFORE going to tell the kid even though you are his best buddy. If you talked to me first, i don't think that kid will be thinking that he deserved to be killed. He was too emotional and think too much.
That's all. No offend here, and the person is NOT you! Don't think too much.
posted by teopag @ 2:30 PM,
3 Comments:
-
At 4:48 AM,
said...
-
"That's all. No offend here, and the person is NOT you! Don't think too much."
Wow...what a good ending for your post.
What happen there? Mind to share? Of course can share it in private. -
At 2:01 PM,
teopag said...
-
Haha...
Just someone misunderstood my response over some matter and took it seriously... He think too much...
Ok, the examples are like this:
Let's say when i MSN you but you didn't reply (may be you are not available, busy, and etc), for few times, so i will "conclude" that KJ don't like to talk to me, KJ is having problem with me...
And then i keep on asking you why you scored 83 in the test but not 73, you already said "i don't know..." but then i still keep on asking till no end... irritating or not..? actually you always give short answer because you don't want to have long discussion (actually you also don't know how the score id counted, and no point arguing for so long), and the interruption is always when you are watching tv, enjoying your meal, or you don't have mood to talk, but i still "haunting" you for giving short answer asking why why why and why...
what would you do?
and i think his buddy also...ah... he should wait for me to clarify why am i so angry, but he went to tell him instead... and told me that this is what a good friend should do and he also insisted that he didn't want to interfere with the matter between you and me.., but then what had you done??!! he even said (for example only ah) if you heard from AGG that i told CY saying i don't like KJ because he is so serious, then (according to him) you should come to "ask" me anything wrong for being so serious? if you don't like me talk to me, don't talk to others... :s i almost fainted when i heard this answer.., by doing so is like putting a deep cut onto the initial mosquito-bite wound, actually later i will forget why i don't like you liao ma, since we biten by mosquitoes frequently and they are flying all around... so what is your point? -
At 11:48 PM,
said...
-
hahaha...hahaha...that guy sounds not gentleman to me. Come on, how old is he? An adult already, please.
